When in a relationship or partnership, we may accidentally subsume the other's being - especially when in public. When in public, you may think you need to present a united front, and that private issues are meant to be privately discussed. This leads to thinking that there needs

I've realised that setting high goals can turn into an obsesssion. You find yourself fixated on the goal you've set, more than on putting in the work to get there. By thinking of the ultimate result, you may accidentally craft a sense of fear of failure.

(Or at least most mundane things are) It's helpful to know that most results are skill based. While there is luck, there is also the work and preperation to be able to capitalise on the opportunities that come. Knowing that most things are skill based is a hopeful

Kindness matters. Because how you choose to act, affects the headspace that you surruound yourself in. When you judge others, your own experience of living is filled with such judgement. When you hate, then you experience hate. So for purely selfish reasons, why not choose to be kind? Being immersed

I wonder if those that are sensitive, those who experience emotions so deeply, experience life to a greater degree. In feeling more, they experience more. This heightened experience feels precious. Some of our best memories in life are definitely tinged with emotion. I would rather be prone to deep emotion

Every community has its own lively discourse, scandals, and dogma. A field of sports has its well-traced history, while an art medium has its critiques. Both are full of dialogue and positions. Just as people debate from opposing sides of established camps, there are also groundbreaking events - always closely

Being angry all the time is a burden. If not to be a good person, at least do it for yourself: Be less angry. Anger makes you a different person. It clouds your thoughts. It hijacks and lives in your mind. That is not only exhausting, but it also lives

When we judge people's taste, we often end up judging the people themselves. Something being tacky means the person behind the clothing is also tacky. Their tackiness becomes a feature by which they are judged. And they are made lesser for it. The implication is that the judger

It seems that people who live in a place with exposure to natural disasters tend to be more resilient. Perhaps being confronted with the dangers and raw power of nature does something to our psyche. I can imagine that when faced with such awe and terror, one is given a

A good rule of thumb to protect yourself: be suspicious of anyone that asks you for your time or money. The world is dangerous. There are many sophisticated scams, and it's hard to tell genuine goodwill from malice at first glance. What you want is to identify MLMs,