Power imbalances are a fact, so protect women and victims
Sexual freedom does not mean just fuck around for no reason, that sounds like it only benefits men
The unequal consequences of sex are real, and so the act of sex can hardly be dis-attached and some impersonal act
Socialisation of rapists away from rape doesn't work because rapists don't listen! This is true
So it sounds like socialisation is an appeal to the myth that men and women are equal in strength and that there are no power imbalances when in one-on-one situations - which is plainly false!
Women think possessive men sometimes are just markers of their interest - but this is not true, the men are likely just violent idiots
Pain is pain, how does consent change that? It doesn't
Prostitution hurts, and this is true via imagining how it must overcome natural revulsion and lack of desire - on part of the seller!
Consider the true demographics of the sex trade - those in poverty, as opposed to those advantaged by class who are not suffering the cruelties as much
Biological choice of women to keep a baby vs the social choice of a man to support them is hardly a symmetrical trade